“I love him…
so why don’t I want him?”
That was the question running through my mind more nights than I’d like to admit.
I wasn’t angry.
I wasn’t resentful.
I just… didn’t feel anything.
And honestly? I convinced myself that was okay.
After six kids, 20 years of marriage, and all the chaos of everyday life—my libido wasn’t just low.
It was gone.
And for a while, I thought:
“Maybe this is just who I am now. Maybe that part of me is over.”
But deep down, I missed it.
Not just sex…
I missed wanting.
I missed feeling desirable. Feeling cheeky. Feeling that little flutter when our eyes met.
I missed the part of me that used to feel alive in her own skin.
If you’re reading this and thinking, “That’s me…”
Please know:
You’re NOT broken.
You’re NOT alone.
And you’re not DONE.
Libilift was made for you.
Not to “fix” your libido.
Not to guilt you into sex.
Not to turn you into someone you’re not.
But to gently guide you back to your body, your pleasure, your spark—
for YOU.
A gentle 3-part system created by a mum of 6 to help you rediscover your libido—without hormones, supplements, or shame.
Reconnect with your Desire.
Rekindle your Intimacy.
Reclaim your Confidence..
My Story
Back in my 20s, desire felt easier.
More spontaneous. More alive in my body.
I didn’t have to think about it or plan for it—it just happened.
And I never questioned it.
But somewhere between midnight feeds, working, mum guilt, and years of routine… that version of me faded.
I could go months without intimacy and feel totally fine.
In fact, I’d wonder why anyone even needed sex at all.
And it didn’t bother me—until it did.
Because while my husband was patient and kind, I could feel him pulling away.
Not out of spite, but sadness.
The connection was still there.
We were best friends.
But the spark… was fading.
And the guilt set in.
I felt like I was failing him.
I wanted to want him.
But I couldn’t force it.
It felt like my desire was no longer in my control.
So I did everything I could think of…
- I got my hormones tested.
- I lost weight.
- I scheduled date nights.
- I even “just said yes” when I didn’t feel like it.
And still… nothing.
I started to believe that my libido was gone for good.
That I was broken.
That this was just the way it ends for women like me.
Until I had one conversation that changed everything.
The Wake-Up Moment
I ran into an old friend at the shops—same age as me, recently divorced.
She was glowing. Giddy. Radiating this wild new energy.
She was dating someone new, and she said something I’ll never forget:
“Sharny, all of us divorced women are suddenly full of libido. It’s not us. It was the marriage.”
That stopped me in my tracks.
Because she wasn’t the only one.
Every woman I knew who had left their long-term relationship was suddenly feeling alive again.
And it hit me:
It’s not about him.
And it’s not about me either.
It’s about what we absorb in long-term relationships—the patterns, the pressure, the stories we pick up along the way.
That was the moment I stopped looking for a magic pill…
and started looking inward.
That journey became Libilift.
I’d just been living in a way that made desire impossible.
I was always in “go mode.”
I never gave myself space to feel.
I was doing sex out of duty instead of desire.
So I created a simple, three-part system to:
Clear the mental and emotional blocks
Reconnect with my own sensuality
Rebuild intimacy from a place of wanting, not obligation.
And to my complete shock…
I didn’t just get my libido back.
I got more of it than I had in my 20s.
But that's not even the best part!
I got more life back.
More energy.
More confidence in my body.
More spark in the way I moved through the world.
And yes—more desire than I’d felt in years.
I started looking at my husband with WANT again…
not out of guilt, not out of duty—
but with that cheeky sparkle I thought I’d lost for good.
But more importantly, I started looking at myself with softness, curiosity, and pride.
Introducing: The LibiLift System
A natural, shame-free way to revive your libido and reconnect with your partner—by coming back to yourself first.
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What You’ll Learn Inside:
What other women are saying about the Libilift System
Charlotte
★★★★★
The biggest ‘Thank you’ Sharny & Julius for creating Libilift, it has quite literally been the missing piece for me in my journey to self - discovery in so many ways. Whilst I am taking my time working through the programme it has created a new level of communication and understanding between my partner & I who is utterly thrilled at me wanting to create a change for us!
What struck me the most is the support and security of opening up to others who experience the same issues with libido and knowing that we’re not alone in this journey, it was so refreshing and reassuring to talk about issues in a safe environment which I didn’t even discuss with my girlfriends.
A million thank yous again for another amazing SJ programme ❤️
Candace
★★★★★
This program has taught me that I am not broken, alone with little to no libido and that sex can be wonderful again; I can want (crave) sex again. I have learned that I will still be tired but maybe more sated if I make five to ten minutes for my husband and I to have sex instead of watching TV while giving the excuse of being too tired. That laundry will still be there if we choose to have a quicky while the kids are playing outside or downstairs.
Cindy
★★★★★
I have just started this. I am still in the preparatory videos. But I can already tell that it helps. Things change. I am not in the super horny can’t get enough feel like a teenager state... yet. But I am aiming to get there. And even just after starting, I can feel the wheels starting to turn in the right direction...and there already is way more action than there used to be ;) I am looking very much forward to continuing this journey! And I can‘t thank SJ enough for developing it.
Caroline
★★★★★
Like all of Sharny and Julius’s programs, the Libilift program is truly life changing. I signed up for many reasons, hubby and I have a great loving relationship but I knew this program was about so much more, and boy was I right.
Sharny’s honest and open approach, her experience and understanding along with the amazing female community offers so much encouragement, insight and real life, it’s inspiring and it’s beautiful.
On a personal level you, gain so much insight into yourself, and as a couple you open up even more than before. Who knew homework could be so much fun.
I could not recommend this program enough, and I absolutely love the group for the support and encouragement and also the sharing. Love, love, love it!!
Erin
★★★★★
Thank you to Sharny & Julius for this amazing program. To hear that it was not just me having issues with my libido was a huge RELIEF! This program is easy to follow along, to do at your own pace and to figure yourself out and to figure your blockages. I have already seen great changes in myself and libido. My husband is extremely happy with the results. I do understand this is something that you need to work on constantly, but the results so far are AWESOME. Thank you, thank you, thank you for bringing this issue to light for so many of us women who think it is just us
Genevieve
★★★★★
I have just started the Libilift program and so far everything that Sharny has shared makes so much sense! Just talking about expectations with my spouse has already gotten some of the mental blocks that we had up. I definitely feel a deeper connection, reminding us of what made us attracted to each other over 18 years ago! I can't wait to finish the program and see where it takes us-nowhere to go but up!
You don’t have to be ready. You just have to be curious.
You don’t have to fix yourself.
You just have to come back to you.
Your desire isn’t gone.
It’s just been buried under stress, guilt, pressure, and disconnection.
Libilift gives you the tools, the space, and the permission to FEEL again—
on your timeline.
So if you’re ready to:
stop faking it,
stop forcing it,
and start feeling it…
This is your invitation.
You’re not buying a course.
You’re reclaiming a part of yourself.
You don’t have to be ready.
You don’t need to be sure.
You just need a whisper of “maybe.”
If that whisper is there…
Libilift is waiting with open arms.
One-time payment. Lifetime access.
Zero pressure. All support.
What other women are saying about the Libilift System
Charlotte
★★★★★
The biggest ‘Thank you’ Sharny & Julius for creating Libilift, it has quite literally been the missing piece for me in my journey to self - discovery in so many ways. Whilst I am taking my time working through the programme it has created a new level of communication and understanding between my partner & I who is utterly thrilled at me wanting to create a change for us!
What struck me the most is the support and security of opening up to others who experience the same issues with libido and knowing that we’re not alone in this journey, it was so refreshing and reassuring to talk about issues in a safe environment which I didn’t even discuss with my girlfriends.
A million thank yous again for another amazing SJ programme ❤️
Cindy
★★★★★
I have just started this. I am still in the preparatory videos. But I can already tell that it helps. Things change. I am not in the super horny can’t get enough feel like a teenager state... yet. But I am aiming to get there. And even just after starting, I can feel the wheels starting to turn in the right direction...and there already is way more action than there used to be ;) I am looking very much forward to continuing this journey! And I can‘t thank SJ enough for developing it.
Caroline
★★★★★
Like all of Sharny and Julius’s programs, the Libilift program is truly life changing. I signed up for many reasons, hubby and I have a great loving relationship but I knew this program was about so much more, and boy was I right.
Sharny’s honest and open approach, her experience and understanding along with the amazing female community offers so much encouragement, insight and real life, it’s inspiring and it’s beautiful.
On a personal level you, gain so much insight into yourself, and as a couple you open up even more than before. Who knew homework could be so much fun.
I could not recommend this program enough, and I absolutely love the group for the support and encouragement and also the sharing. Love, love, love it!!
Candace
★★★★★
This program has taught me that I am not broken, alone with little to no libido and that sex can be wonderful again; I can want (crave) sex again. I have learned that I will still be tired but maybe more sated if I make five to ten minutes for my husband and I to have sex instead of watching TV while giving the excuse of being too tired. That laundry will still be there if we choose to have a quicky while the kids are playing outside or downstairs.
Genevieve
★★★★★
I have just started the Libilift program and so far everything that Sharny has shared makes so much sense! Just talking about expectations with my spouse has already gotten some of the mental blocks that we had up. I definitely feel a deeper connection, reminding us of what made us attracted to each other over 18 years ago! I can't wait to finish the program and see where it takes us-nowhere to go but up!
Erin
★★★★★
Thank you to Sharny & Julius for this amazing program. To hear that it was not just me having issues with my libido was a huge RELIEF! This program is easy to follow along, to do at your own pace and to figure yourself out and to figure your blockages. I have already seen great changes in myself and libido. My husband is extremely happy with the results. I do understand this is something that you need to work on constantly, but the results so far are AWESOME. Thank you, thank you, thank you for bringing this issue to light for so many of us women who think it is just us
So what are YOU waiting for?
You don’t have to fix yourself.
You just have to come back to you.
Your desire isn’t gone.
It’s just been buried under stress, guilt, pressure, and disconnection.
Libilift gives you the tools, the space, and the permission to feel again—on your timeline.
So if you’re ready to stop faking it, stop forcing it, and start feeling it…
This is your invitation.
You’re not buying a course. You’re reclaiming a part of yourself.
Retail Price $299 | Save 50%
Only One Payment for LIFETIME access
FAQ – Let’s make this easy.
Libilift is a gentle, private, online program that helps women reconnect with their desire—without pressure, hormones, or trying to be someone you’re not.
It’s self-paced, made for real-life mums (read: busy and touched-out), and created by me—Sharny, a mum of six who’s lived it.
Nope. This isn’t about lingerie or learning new tricks.
It’s about feeling like you again.
Feeling connected to your body. Your partner. Your spark.
And letting desire return in a way that’s real—not performative.
That’s exactly who this was made for.
Desire and love aren’t always in sync—and that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you or your relationship.
Libilift helps you rebuild that connection gently, from the inside out.
Then this program will still meet you with kindness.
Libilift is not about pushing you to want anything.
It’s about creating space, softening the pressure, and letting your body guide the process—if and when it’s ready.
Libilift isn’t a medical or hormonal fix—but many women who thought hormones were the issue discovered it was something deeper: mental load, disconnection, pressure, exhaustion.
This program addresses those.
No. While my story is with a male partner, everything in Libilift applies to women in all types of relationships—or even those who are healing alone.
If you’ve felt disconnected from your desire, this is for you.
That’s okay.
You can take your time. Libilift will be here when you are.
And when you do feel ready, you’ll have lifetime access, so you can go at your own pace.
You can access Libilift through our app or by logging in on our website—whichever feels easier for you.
The program is video-based (with short, real-talk lessons from me), and every video is fully subtitled in case you don’t want anyone overhearing.
Most women watch it with headphones in—on walks, in the car, or curled up in bed.
It’s completely private, go-at-your-own-pace, and yours for life.
Still unsure? Read this if you’re quietly on the fence…
If you’ve scrolled this far,
there’s probably a part of you that’s still hoping.
Maybe just a flicker.
Maybe a whisper.
But it’s there.
And I want you to know… I see you.
You’re not being dramatic.
You’re not being selfish.
You’re not “making this a big deal.”
Your desire matters.
Your disconnection matters.
You matter.
You don’t have to dive in headfirst.
You don’t have to promise anyone anything.
You just have to take one quiet step toward yourself.
That’s what Libilift is.
Not a fix.
Not a quick win.
Just the start of something real.
If you’re still wondering whether you should…
That might be your answer.
Love,
Sharny
“I went from avoiding intimacy to initiating it—for the first time in years. My husband is stunned, in the best way. But more than that—I feel like a woman again.”
— Kerry, Mum of 3